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Types of Domestic Abuse

An abusive relationship - whether it be a marriage, dating, gay or straight one - may contain many, a few, or some of these acts:  physical, sexual, emotional, or financial.

Physical

Any physical harm, from a shove to murder.  Or threatening any physical harm. 

• Slapping
• Pushing
• Pinching
• Hitting
• Shoving
• Shaking
• Hair pulling
• Biting
• Burning
• Strangling
• Suffocating
• Stabbing
• Restraining victim
• Murder

Sexual

• Rape
• Sexual assault
• Threats of rape or sexual assault
• Unwanted sexual touching or sexual coercion
• Lewd comments directed at victim's body or sexuality, or performance of a sexual act to offend or humiliate her

Emotional

• Abuser constantly criticizes the victim (how she looks, performs tasks, or her ability to be a good wife or mother)
• Limits the victim's contact with friends and family
• Limits the victim's decision-making power for herself and children
• Continually monitors the victim's actions and whereabouts
• Insists the victim check in frequently throughout the day
• Threatens the victim with physical or sexual harm
• Threatens the victim with a gun, knife, or other object
• Threatens to harm the victim's children or other family members or friends
• Threatens to take the children away
• Abuse children (physically, sexually, and/or psychologically)
• Threatens or harms pets
• Extreme jealousy - accuses victim of cheating with another partner
• Blames victim for things that go wrong, including the abuser's own behavior
• Destroys property
• Locks victim in the house or threatens her if she leaves the ouse
• Threatens suicide or homicide
• Harasses or stalks the victim once the relationship has ended
• Threatens to harm the victim if she leaves the relationship and enters another, "If I can't have you nobody will," or words to that affect.

Financial

• Abuser controls victim's money or access to money
• Controls victim's ability to work and earn money
• Threatens to get the victim fired